J and E, Motherhood, Years are short

My Favorite Moments of 2016

People love to reflect on the events of the year around this time. Somehow, being a little introspective while trying to connect the dots of how things worked out or didn’t, in the otherwise mundane living of our dailies, seems to make the passing of a year, that much more significant.

I have had a good year. I understand that as far as adjectives go, “good” does not spark particularly inspiring interest, nor does it convey anything especially significant. It is just word that implies a nondescript, ho-hum kinda a feeling. My year was anything but. I merely use this adjective because you’ll find a range of others interspersed throughout the rest of the narrative. In this intro, I merely want to capture my contentment at a year well lived.

As I say good-bye to the year that was and look forward to welcoming the year that will be, I share with you:

My Favorite Moments of 2016:

  1. 20160321_112205Without doubt, the single most eventful moment of 2016 – The moment my darling baby girl popped out. I loved how she felt in my arms, her pinkish hue, her looking up at me in instant recognition… The first word that came to my mind upon looking at her then and that still comes to mind looking at her now – PERFECT. She is perfect.
  2. At the hospital, seeing my little boy who was elevated to Big Brother status tentatively and then, more confidently, get introduced to his baby sister. His love and reactions to her were absolutely precious!

us

3. The time at the Happy Hollow Park & Zoo when he was able to cross the rope bridge by himself and with some encouragement from me.

img_20160930_114147871

4. Also at Happy Hollow Park & Zoo when he was able to climb the long set of stairs and slide down the ridiculously long (for a 2-year-old) tunnel slide by himself. I was so, so, so proud of him.

img_20160909_105638668

5. Another one at Happy Hollow Park & Zoo when all three of us, TJ, E on my lap, and me slid down the slide at the Crooked House and fell down on the wood chips below. We laughed and rolled on the chips, getting dirty and dusty and loving every second of it! Baby E had no idea what was happening but she was part of it all the same.

img_20160930_112231944_hdr

6. The moment, a few months ago, when TJ said his own name for the first time.

7. The moment in the kitchen when he said, “I love you Mommy” for the first time. He had, hitherto, only said it at night time when we said our good nights and upon being asked what he needed to say in reply to my telling him I loved him.

8. The moment when, for some reason I said, “Ouch” while in the kitchen, and TJ who was at the dining area, asked, “You okay, Mommy?”

9. Catching Baby E in her moment of moving into a sitting position from a rolling one…all by herself for the first time.

back

10. Waking Baby E up in the mornings – EVERY MORNING – She wakes up with the widest of smiles and is absolutely thrilled to see me. No matter how I am feeling previous to waking her up, upon seeing her delighted face, I am instantaneously uplifted.

11. The time in the evening when Aaron and I started singing the ABC song to Baby E and TJ joined in, singing it with us. I didn’t know that he learned to sing it at school so we were very impressed and pleasantly surprised.

12. Every time Baby E is about to fall backwards onto our thickly padded rug from a seated position (not so much anymore) or is stuck with a toy she can’t get off her hand or in the midst of any kind of harmless activity that TJ perceives as being dangerous for her and he runs to her saying, “I got you, Baby” to help her out.

13. Making Baby E laugh – Every time I snuggle on to her cheeks or belly and tickle-kiss her and she laughs. Just hearing her hearty laugh makes me so, so happy. She has always been a happy baby and watching her blossoming personality is an absolute joy. Touchwood.

14. Attending Music Together with TJ, just me and him, and having a very, very good time.

15. The time the three of us went to Emma Prusch Farms and TJ said, “Hold hand, Mommy” asking to hold my hand on our way from the parking to the entrance. He had only just started to put words together so this was a big deal.

farm-1

16. Our first vacation as a family of 4. We had such a relaxing time and had so much fun with TJ! Every night was dessert night (within reason). We took walks, saw deer from inside the glass house that we rented for the week, found TJ randomly asleep on the carpet behind the couches in the living room one afternoon (we were napping on the couch too so we had no idea he had left his room to come into the living room), cooked as well as bought really delicious food…just everything was superb and a very memorable experience.

dsc_0837

17. Visiting Seven Seas Water Park in Sunnyvale with the kids and running through the water sprinklers holding TJ’s hands, screaming and jumping through the water. What fun!

18. Every single time I hear him saying the following: “Here you go, Mommy” (usually handing me my phone even when I haven’t asked for it. If he sees it somewhere, he just picks it up and brings it to me), “Where are you, Mommy?” (not so much the words as much as the way he says “Where” – sound like “veerRu”, “Don’t be upset, Mommy” (because even mommies need to cry sometimes, either that, or I am angry at him over something), “J got it” (when he wants to do something on his own).

19. The time when I was crying and TJ climbed on top of a chair, reached for the box of Kleenex, and brought me a tissue.

20. Every time I witness tender moments between my two kids – whether it is watching Baby E trying to follow TJ’s every move or seeing TJ kiss and hug his sister tenderly even when nobody is watching or take something away from her that she is not supposed to have for her safety, holding her hand when the vacuum cleaner is running so she doesn’t get scarred, or covering her ears when I need to run the blender, or the one time I caught him feeding her and Baby E eagerly opening her mouth to take in the spoon.

img_20161204_174702419

I could keep going but I’ll stop here. 2016 has been a good year, indeed! You will notice that I haven’t written anything directly pertaining to Aaron and that’s because I wanted to keep this about the kids. Of course, in writing about the kids, I am writing about Aaron too because in them, I see him too.

See you in 2017. I have a lot of exciting things planned and can’t wait to have them unfold in the new year.

Merry Christmas! Happy Hanukkah!
(The two celebrations my family celebrates this month).

Happy New year!


ThePhdMama

 

Digiprove sealCopyright secured by Digiprove © 2017

22 thoughts on “My Favorite Moments of 2016

  1. Love the way you remember and wrote each precious word TJ said and the interaction between J and E! I sometimes forget to note these things down being a SAHM. I am starting a daily journal today of these precious moments. Thanks for the inspiration. You are a wonderful mom!!

  2. Such a lovely lovely way to round up the year. This has inspired me to make a list of my own. I am sure it would be so awesome to look back on.

    Glad you had a great 2016. Wishing you a much better 2017. 🙂

    1. Thank you. It has been a memorable year, for sure! The only challenge I had was in considering how many memories to include in the list. I think you’ll have a few challenges of your own too and if you are planning on blogging about them, then there is of course word count to consider. I could have easily gone over a couple 1000s but decided to stop at 20 points, somewhere a little over a 1000 words 🙂
      Wish you a very happy 2017 as well.

      1. True. I agree. That’s what I thought. But if we are worried that we will exceed word count, then it means we had a truly great year, with much to write about. And that is always a win, right? 🙂

        1. Haha agreed! I am a wordy, verbose person regardless but trying really hard not to monopolize my readers’ time too much is not easy. Editing should be my new year’s resolution. Hahahahaha (prbly going to fail right away).

  3. Fist time here and I feel so at home reading this nostalgic post of yours. I have been meaning to write a post on similar lines, but then I had a few other posts planned too. Well, let me see 🙂 Wishing you a great year ahead!

    1. Welcome and thanks so much for stopping by and for your wishes. I wish you the same. I look forward to visiting your space and reading your posts.
      I’m sorry for replying this late. For some reason, this comment went into the Spam tab.

  4. Hi,
    Congratulations on your being nominated for the Versatile Blogger Award! I loved seeing my daughters when they “popped out too”.
    Thanks for coming by my blog and liking my post about paying money. I wanted to introduce myself and thank you.
    Janice

  5. Hi Suchitra, I loved reading your 2016 journey of happy moments. Being a mom myself,I can understand how it feels when your little ones calls out his/her name fir the first time or calls you. Best Wishes for your linky party

    1. Oh yes, indeed! I am trying to get a baby’s first year book going and wow….just so much and so many of everything (however grammatically inaccurate that sounds)!!

  6. So many beautiful moments with your little family! It is wonderful to take time to remember these little things that are too easily forgotten amongst the bigger things that happen in the year. It’s so good for your well-being to be grateful in this way too. #bloggerbeatz

  7. A lovely round up post Suchitra. I too record my Toddler’s activities and special moments in a scrapbook. Its a delight to check them later. Right? You had a wonderful year Lady Wish you good. Family of us sounds so complete.

    1. Thank you, Upasna. You’re so right. I sometimes read back on things my kids did even from a few months earlier and it feels amazing to see the tremendous amount of growth that has happened in their young lives.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

CommentLuv badge